Discipline (BDSM)
The use of rules and punishment to control overt behaviour.
Punishment can be
pain caused physically (such as
caning), humiliation caused physically (such as a public
flagellation) or loss of freedom caused physically (such as chaining the controlee to the foot of a bed, for snoring). Note the issue of
legal consent which may or may not represent a defence to criminal liability for any injuries caused.
Bondage when used as a punishment is still bondage, but because it is overtly being done in response to a 'rule' being broken, it is also part of the discipline. Punishment does not need to be physical. It can be loss of privileges (such as having an
orgasm this month), being ordered to do a task (such as writing lines on a blackboard) on threat of further punishment if not finished correctly, it can be verbal
humiliation or really any act that can be inflicted on the controlee or get them to inflict on themselves that they don't like.
Rules can be applied randomly by
dominants as a tool for disorienting a
submissive. A
sadist may also use them as a pretext for punishment. A disciplinarian, on the other hand, is one who enjoys gaining control over someone's physical actions and apparent behaviour by training them to obey stated rules.