Esse quam videri

Great Seal of North Carolina with the state motto esse quam videri.

Esse quam videri (Latin "To be, rather than to seem") is a state motto of North Carolina, adopted in 1893. It is found in Cicero's essay "On Friendship" ("De amicitia", chapter 98). ("Virtute enim ipsa non tam multi praediti esse quam videri volunt." roughly "Many are not so endowed with bravery as they wish to seem.")

It is somewhat unique that until the act of 1893 the sovereign state of North Carolina had no motto since its declaration of independence. It was one of the few states which did not have a motto and the only one of the original thirteen without one.

This is (or was) also the motto of several schools around the world including;
*Albert Academy Freetown, Sierra Leone
*S. Anselms Preparatory School Bakewell, England
*Colyton Grammar School (1546) Colyford, England
*Ashville College (1877) Harrogate, England
*Columbia College Chicago (1890) Chicago, Illinois, USA
*The Hermitage School (1906), Geelong, Australia which has subsequently become that of The Hermitage House, Geelong Grammar School.
*Cranbrook School (1918), Sydney, Australia.
*Connells Point Public School [1], Sydney, Australia.
*St Malachy's Memorial High School (http://stm.nbed.nb.ca/) in Saint John, New Brunswick, Canada.
*Garrison Forest School for Girls (1910) Owings Mills, Maryland, USA
*Kutama College Norton, Zimbabwe
*The Episcopal Academy Merion, Pennsylvania, USA
*KIPP Houston High School, Houston, Texas, USA

Also the motto used on within the Brockman coat of arms circa 1700. The crest passed out of use with the death of James Brockman in 1767.

"Esse Quam Videri" is also the motto of the Delta Phi Epsilon sorority [2], founded in 1917 at New York University Law School.

Just a few years after Cicero, Sallust used the phrase in his Bellum Catilinae (54.6), writing that Cato the Younger "esse quam videri bonus malebat" (He preferred to be good rather than to seem so).

Previous to both Romans, Aeschylus used a similar phrase in Seven Against Thebes at line 592, at which the scout (angelos) says of the seer/priest Amphiaraos: "ou gar dokein aristos, all' enai thelei" (his resolve is not to seem the best but in fact to be the best). Plato quoted this line in Republic (361b).