Personal lubricant
Personal lubricants describe specialized
lubricants which serve to reduce
friction with the
vagina, the
anus, or other body parts. Personal lubricants were originally derived from
surgical lubricants designed for use during medical procedures, but are now also used frequently to provide lubrication for
sexual practices.
Water-based
Water-based personal lubricants are water
soluble, and are generally the type which is least irritating to body surfaces. The earliest water-based lubricants were
cellulose solutions. Subsequent products have added various agents for spreading, water retention, and resistance to contamination. The
viscosity of these products can be adjusted by adjusting their water content and concentration of cellulose (or other gel forming macromolecule). They do have a tendency to dry out during use, but application of additional water is sufficient to re-activate them. These properties lead to their frequent use for sexual activity.
Since the
1980s, a few companies have used a water soluble, silicon co-polymer (
dimethicone), for a prolonged slippery effect. While these contain a silicone component they are still water based products. They are very slippery, which can be a disadvantage because a certain amount of friction is necessary for optimal sensation, their viscosity cannot be adjusted, and they can stain clothing and sheets.
Water-based lubricants are incompatible with sex acts which occur in water (such as in a bath) as they can be dissolved or dispersed in water.
Popular brands include
K-Y Jelly,
Astroglide,
Sliquid, and
Ready lubricant.
The veterinary lubricant and special-effects slime ingredient
J-Lube is sometimes used as a sexual lubricant, especially in some sexual subcommunities. It is usually purchased as a powder, which consists of
polyethylene oxide mixed with
sucrose as a dispersing agent, and produces an inexpensive and extremely slippery lubricant when mixed with water.
Oil-based
Unlike water-based lubricants, oil-based lubricants such as
Vaseline weaken latex and may reduce the effectiveness of
latex condoms as a contraceptive and protection against
sexually-transmitted diseases. Another reason why oil-based lubricants should not be used for anal sex is because oil-based substances may coat the lining of the rectum, providing a haven for infection. ([
1]). Oils based lubricants can irritate and increase risk of infection in the vagina also.
Although petroleum jelly (ie
Vaseline) is inexpensive and readily available, it can often be difficult to clean off the body after sexual activity, due to the fact that it is not water soluble. Clear, bottled
Mineral oil (commonly used as an oral laxative), or Baby oil, is a less viscous alternative to petroleum jelly and is easier to wash off the skin. One might also consider a vegetable oil like
Rice bran oil, if the food smell can be tolerated.
Silicone-based
Technically, most
silicone-based lubricants are oils, as they are chemically hydrophobic. They tend to retain lubrication longer than water-based lubricant, however most are safe to use with latex condoms. Always check the label of the lubricant before use.
Silicone-based lubricants should not be used with silicone based sex toys. It dissolves the surface of the toys, turning them sticky and slowly breaking them down. Pre-lubricated condoms usually use a silicon lubricant, so be careful to not mix the two (use a non-lubricated condom with a silicone product)
Popular brands include
Eros,
Sliquid Silver,
Wet Platinum and DeGLOW ([
2]).
Specialty
"Specialty" lubricants are designed to cause physiological or physical changes to the area applied; these include warming lubricants which cause a heating sensation in the skin. Breathing on these types of lubricants can increase the effect. Another type of specialty lubricant can increase blood flow to the regions in which they are applied creating a fuller erection of the penis or clitoris; these may contain
vasodilators to theoretically increase blood flow after topical application. Still others include flavored lubricants.
Popular brands include
Wet fun flavors (may be warming and/or flavored),
Sliquid Swirl &
Sliquid Sizzle (flavored & warming lubricants),
KY Jelly (warming lubricant) and
Thermal (warming lubricant with vasodilator
L-arginine).
Alternatives
Other substances improvised as sexual lubricants:
* moisturizing body
lotion*
cooking oils
*
egg white*
salivaThe use of food as a lubricant is contraindicated for hygienic reasons.
Medicine
In medicine, personal lubricants such as
K-Y Jelly can be used for
gynecological examinations,
digital rectal examinations, and in the use of
enema nozzles and
rectal thermometers.
Sexual intercourse
A lubricant can be used to increase pleasure or reduce pain during sexual activity and may be used for lubricating the
penis or
dildo and/or the
vagina or
anus before
sexual intercourse. Personal lubricants make bearable and even pleasurable acts that would otherwise be painful, such as
anal sex, or vaginal intercourse when the woman experiences
vaginal dryness or her vagina is contracted. It is generally sufficient to apply a good drop of gel on the vaginal entrance; anal sex may require a more generous application. There are also available combinations of personal lubricants with
spermicides, to be injected into the vagina prior to intercourse.
Masturbation
Males and females
masturbate differently. While males do produce a lubricating fluid (
Cowper's fluid), the informal name for this fluid, "pre-come" or "pre-cum", already indicates that this may often be released only relatively shortly before orgasm or after intense mental stimulation. The use of lubricant is paticularly common for circumcised men. A lubricant may be used to facilitate the use of certain
sex toys, or with females as part of prolonged
clitoral stimulation. Females may use oil as a masturbating lubricant because it tends to last longer than the water based lubricant or body lotion.
Brands
Astroglide,
BodyFluid,
K-Y, Elbow Grease,
Eros, For Play, Gun Oil, ID,
Liquid Silk,
Maximus,
O'My, Probe,
Slippery Stuff,
Sliquid, System JO,
Wet